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    Shinoskay
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    Post by Shinoskay on Tue Oct 16, 2018 9:51 pm

    So this is a bare minimum topic for me and something actually worth making a suggestion on. I dont even know if I am going to stay here, I came here because I made a deal with sin but she hasnt been active on either site and I havent heard from her in a weak. She is still in the discord so I am giving it more time before I decide what I am going to do but in the mean time what just happened in chat is just not going to fly for me.

    I fully believe that trashing someone because of ooc technicalities barring that someone is disrespect. if someone is happy and chearing when they accomplished all they could, despite the odds, and got all that the meta/ooc will allow them. That is cool...

    if someone goes in and says 'nope, no, wrong... just wrong' because ooc barred them from getting everything... and technically they didnt meet their goal... thats not cool. its wrong actually... its unjust, toxic, and just disrespectful. Multiple people did this, it wasnt even on just one person.

    I even took the time to explain how what the person did is also a technical victory so that they could hopefully chill off it but they didnt.

    ok, great, mods said they can say whatever because it wasnt blatantly disrespectful... that sounds bad to me. technicalities are gross... we shouldnt live and breath on technicalities unless its a really close situation and we actually need those to trully decide because otherwise we couldnt. thats what technicalities are for... unclear situations.

    I am not ok with people rudely shitting on others parade, I dont say anything when yui talks about how badass her blast is or when tsu goes on about her uber craft stuff. I dont say anything about it even tho I have plenty of opinions. But then for them to turn around and trash on someone else? and its ok?


    REALLY!?!

    I suggest better standards for respect.


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    Post by Masuyo Kaede on Tue Oct 16, 2018 10:14 pm

    Expressing a different opinion does not qualify as disrespect. In order for something to be disrespectful, toxic, or in general 'not allowed' in Discord needs to be malicious in nature. Somebody expressing another opinion is not malicious, no matter if you disagree with it or not.

    Reviewing the recent conversation in the Discord that was far from disrespect. If you cant handle a debate, dont get involved in one, or more importantly start one.


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    Post by Akame on Tue Oct 16, 2018 10:18 pm

    Disagreeing with your opinion does not mean the other person is being disrespectful or targeting anybody in particular, it means they disagree with you. Not everybody is going to hold the exact same view as you on a majority of topics so getting angry, confrontational, and to put it bluntly, rude when somebody says they disagree with you is immature. Especially on a topic that is the exact opposite of serious.


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    Post by Shinoskay on Tue Oct 16, 2018 10:33 pm

    there shouldnt have been a debate when people are praising someone, there is no point in debating technicalities that ooc influenced an ic situation EXCEPT for to spoil the festivities. that is toxic, that is disrespectful. it is even selfish and obvious envy/jealousy which is also what qualifies as toxic.

    I didnt start a debate, I respectfully acknowledged that someone felt contrary, even if they shouldn't have been contrary, and present to them a reason to accept the situation. They didnt... they persisted. Just like now isnt a debate, I am not making a counter point, I am presenting a standard and telling you that your declaration there was a debate is also wrong. I would go grab dictionary definitions but I did that once and people did not acknowledge or respect it and so I wont bother to now.


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    Post by Akame on Tue Oct 16, 2018 10:35 pm

    Ok


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